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October 2023
“Self care is also not arguing with people who are committed to misunderstanding you.”
~ Ayishat A. Akanbi
Red Flags Continued: The Disingenuous D-type
When a D-type doesn’t give aftercare to their submissive:
- No aftercare offered to the submissive to help relax after a session.
- Ignoring established limits.
- Ignoring established safewords.
- Being overzealous about their experience to the point of seeming disingenuous.
- Lack of clear communication in general.
